I have no doubt some can not masturbate without falling into the sin of lust, but that does not make masturbation in and of it self sin. We are fighting FOR our spouses.
Why Do Married Men Masturbate? - Uncovering Intimacy
Adding to the Word of God was a habit with them, and Jesus called them rude things for it.
9 Reasons married people should still masturbate
Whether your spouse is the one who is masturbating to avoid sex, or you masturbate because your spouse refuses sex, you must talk to your spouse about it. I appreciate your writing about this difficult topic.
Overall results indicated that the frequency of recent sex within the relationship had little connection to the frequency of masturbation. I have served on a support site for years as a moderator on sexual issues for couples that have gone through PCa…prostate cancer.
In the past few years writing this blog, I have come across many men who would rather masturbate than have sex with their wife.